Të gjithë e dinë që trupi i gruas pas lindjes nuk duket më së miri.
Duke filluar nga shtrirjet e lëkurës në bark, trupi i gruas është duke kaluar nëpër shumë ndryshime, ndërsa ajo është shtatzënë. Këto ndryshime mund të ndikojnë shumë në trup edhe pas lindjes.
Sidoqoftë, nuk duhet të përqendrohemi në trupin dhe ndryshimet e tij, por në vetë veprimin e krijimit të një jete të re dhe sjelljen e saj në botë. Ndryshimet që kanë përjetuar dhe dhimbja që kanë kaluar nuk kanë rëndësi për nënat pasi të shohin fëmijën e tyre.
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“My body looks just like yours!” is the WHOLE point of this account. I was sitting in my little corner of the world swearing up and down that I was the only person who looked like me. It’s a lonely feeling. Made even more lonely because I had been convinced that stretch marks and scars and loose skin were disgusting. Not even gonna sugar coat it. This is how extreme we view these things and it’s all a complete distraction and waste of our time and energy. We have a life to live, laughter to share, and love to ignite the passions that drive our purpose. We have endless gifts to share with the world and we can’t even begin to think about it if we’re constantly lost in our alleged brokenness and feelings of shame. This feeling stops us from being able to do more than rock a crop top. It stops us from pursuing opportunities, relationships, and pleasure because that’s how deep these issues run. When you say you’re afraid for your partner to see you, what you’re really saying is “I don’t want to be rejected for having failed to deliver on an expectation that I’ve been told is easily preventable if I cared and worked hard enough. So, if I am rejected it’ll be my fault.” I know. I said those things to myself, too. Thank goodness that I listened to that tiny tiny voice whispering “that’s bullsh*t. you know it and if you don’t believe me, try me.” Here I am yelling now THIS IS BULLSH*T. YOU KNOW IT. IF YOU DON’T BELIEVE ME, TRY ME. Be a whole person thrusting yourself towards the gifts meant for you and then share them with the world that needs them desperately. 💖✨✨✨✨✨✨✨ #bemorethanabody #stretchmarks #scars #takebackpostpartum #looseskin #scarrednotscared #mummytummy #effyourbeautystandards #stopcensoringmotherhood #mombod
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Nënat në të gjithë botën duhet të admirohen nga të gjithë për përkushtimin dhe sfidat me të cilat përballen për fëmijët. Ato kanë nevojë për kohë për t’u shëruar dhe për t’u kujdesur për foshnjën gjatë 6 javëve të para të lindjes.
Në një formë vetëdijesimi disa gra ndanë fotografi të barkut të tyre pas lindjes, duke treguar se kjo është një gjë normale dhe të gjitha nënat e reja duhet ta duanë trupin ashtu si është.
Disa nga fotografitë e bukura me një mesazh të rëndësishëm pas vetes i gjeni më poshtë:
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Time will push you to your limits, faster than you want it to, aging you in ways that make you ache, slow down, grow tired and weak. Laugh. Walk. Eat. Drink. Dance. Garden. Skip. Make an effort and stop time. Stand beneath a rainshower, let yourself become completely drenched. Nap under a tree, when the rest of the world goes to work. Get on a bicycle and go for a cruise. Drink that wine or milkshake slower than you ever thought you could… savour each drop. Babies will suck your energy up. Children will treat your body like a jungle gym, bruising your skin, and pulling your muscles. Jobs will have you sitting indoors for too long. Partners may take you for granted. Friends will be under the illusion that they are too busy for simpler times spent together. Musical instruments will sit in their cases, forgotten. Hair will go unwashed. First dates will be boring and waste your time. Lovers will rip your heart out and put you through emotional hell and back, leaving you gutted, insecure and distrusting. Labor and birth and early motherhood will be painful, hard and depleting; leaving you with a body you may not know so well, or feel so good about. The path of adulthood is textured and often, uphill. But. ❤ You are incredible. You are soft, and precious. Giving, and nurturing. Beautiful and sensual. 🔥❤You are worth honouring.❤🔥 🔥❤You are worth loving.❤🔥 🔥❤Stop for a moment, and love yourself.❤🔥 Repeat x infinity.
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Strong. Brave. Empowered. Beautiful. United. MOTHERS. • There is something really special about uniting together on our Motherhood journeys, supporting and empowering one another despite how different we may be in all of our journeys as Mothers. • Motherhood is one of the most challenging experiences I have ever faced. I’ve struggled in my own journey of highs and lows as a Mother. I’ve walked through postpartum depression and anxiety. I’ve faced feelings of uncertainty and questioned my value and if I really am enough. The truth is, most of us don’t have a clue what we are doing and I think that really is what Motherhood is. At times we are too hard on ourselves focusing too much on what we are lacking, but what about what we are doing great and amazing! • Last summer, my daughter almost drowned. I blamed myself for a long time. Yet, my daughter, helped change my perspective. Anytime she talks about her accident she says with the biggest smile, “Mama, you SAVED me!!” Perspective is everything in parenting. You are valued Mama. You are loved. You are meeting the hearts of your children every single day. Hard days happen, but Mama, you are doing great! • There is something that bonds every single one of us as Mothers, and it is the incredible and overwhelming love we share for our children. We all understand that kind of love. That kind of love unites and empowers us to encourage and love on each other! Keep you doing YOU Mama. • Bra/undies: @kindredbravely #bravemomsunite #BraveMomAd #BeBravely #KindredBravely #Ad • Check out the Kindred Bravely website using my link bit.ly/ThePerfectMom and use discount code “PERFECT20” to receive 20% for those in the US
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