Spanking does the opposite of what parents usually want to achieve
Research shows that hitting is associated with the same negative outcomes as maltreatment, just to a slightly lesser extent, the authors of the preliminary study concluded.
This usually happens when an angry or frustrated parent hits, shakes or throws the child away. Physical abuse injuries result from punching, kicking, beating, burning, and any other action that causes injury to the child.
Slap is often considered as an action that serves to discipline the child, but which is actually a form of child abuse, regardless of whether it leaves marks or not, Telegrafi reports.
Children who are punished by their parents, are often heard only for the moment, which can create the belief in parents that the punishment is a good educational measure. However, it is more than evident that the child accumulates bitterness and frustration in himself.
When the child is at school or when he is with his friends, he will certainly use the way of expression that he learned at home, that is, with violence.
The child should never be hit, even the threat of it causes fear and form of violence. Any form of physical punishment reduces the child's self-respect!
The longer the abuse lasts, the more serious the damage to the child will become and the more difficult it will be to eliminate the abusive behavior.
The child becomes withdrawn, avoids the parents, and with this their mutual relations are damaged.
When parents while beating their children say: "I do this out of love" or "This hurts me more than you", the child begins to mix love and pain and makes a connection between love and violence.
The bully instigates the chain of family violence. As a result of bullying, hostile mood, rage and desire for revenge develop. As the child grows, the nanny must become more powerful.
The physically and psychologically abused child suffers emotionally from non-continuous parental care and from the fear of other abuses that may follow.
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The child who is constantly subjected to threats begins to think that he is worthless, unlovable and unwanted.
It is for this reason that they become cold, wild and explosively unpredictable. In some cases they are apathetic, without desires unlike their peers.
Research shows that children who are beaten by their parents often beat their partners and children as adults!
Control your bitterness! Use words and actions instead of physical punishment. Your children will learn more and respect you more! / Telegraph/
