If you notice that when you are away from each other you want to have sex with your partner, while when you are at home the desire for sex is gone, then write down your erotic fantasies on paper.
As we have seen, family troubles, home stress rule over sexual desire and blunt it. Perhaps, inside us this desire simmers, but in the home environment it begs for a stimulus for this desire to explode.
When you are away from your partner, try to feel the excitement and imagine yourself with your partner in a scene of intercourse. Start writing: describe your actions, sensations, just as if it is really happening. Here is an example of an erotic letter, written by a man.
Dear..., how much I miss you! I'm dying to do it with you, I can't wait to see you and touch you. I love to touch your naked body, go crazy with pleasure and the desire for sex, while lingering in the dimples and ridges of your body, especially your so exciting breasts. I can't wait to tease with my tongue and suck those hard nipples into my mouth. Right now I'm dreaming of you in my arms. I feel your warm and soft body learning my body, I squeeze you tighter and tighter, I sink into the scent of your skin and I am overwhelmed by an indescribable wave of love. Even the light kisses of your sweet lips make my whole body tremble with pleasure. The kisses continue more and more vigorously. Lips open: my tongue penetrates your mouth, I lick and lick your tongue, your warm and wet mouth excites me even more. I want to take your head in my hands and stroke your hair. I love it when I explore every part of your body with my touch and I know how much it excites you. I am overcome with pleasure when you run your fingers all over my body. Every touch of yours almost makes me lose my senses with pleasure and I know how much it excites you too. How excited I am when you take off your bra, from the contrast between the soft flesh of your breasts and the firm nipples. I know that you love me as much as I love you, and I reward you by giving myself to you whole, flesh and soul. I love you! I burn with the desire I have to become one with your body, to be near you, to penetrate your warm and moist vagina. My fingers rub the open vagina, I get excited. Lightly and rhythmically I draw concentric circles, closer and closer to the clitoris until I caress it sweetly. The rhythm becomes more and more vigorous, you begin to moan and squeal in pleasure and, meanwhile, increase the speed of the hand movement and the pressure on the clitoris and vagina. I feel how your body arches, how it asks me to put it inside, thirsty for pleasure: I can't wait to sink myself as deep as possible inside you. I have covered your whole body with countless caresses, the rhythm of your breathing is becoming faster: here, you are letting out those sweet moans, in which you can clearly read the pleasure you feel. I have a very strong, erect penis: it wants to penetrate the vagina. He finally enters you. What a heavenly sensation I experience from entering your holy temple, love fills my heart, lust grows without limit. I begin to move inside you with light and deep penetrations of the penis. Time has stopped in place. Finally, we have united and become one. As I slowly push my cock inside of you and engulf you completely, I feel your moans get even louder and I see you completely surrender to the power of my sex. I keep pumping, back and forth, back and forth, my penis getting harder and harder. Each thrust of his deeper vagina ignites all the subtle fibers of my soul. I feel like I'm going to burst, but my pressure is temporarily relieved: I'm completely engulfed by your moans of pleasure. Together we climb to the heights of love, of pleasure, we reach ecstasy. I'm showing you all my love as you approach orgasm. Your gasps of pleasure are getting more and more frequent, you are reaching orgasm and in me the flashbulbs of my orgasm are turning on and lo and behold, the sperm is pouring out furiously! We both release ourselves into the ecstasy of intimate union, our naked bodies engorged, locked in an inseparable embrace. Find peace of mind. My whole being finds spiritual peace, I feel complete again, sexually strong. I thank God for giving me the opportunity to know you and to accept this gift of falling in love with you. As you lie next to me, I gently stroke your hair and lose myself in your beautiful gaze. I say to you, "That was wonderful," and you respond with a smile. Once again, I have the opportunity to remind myself how happy I am with you. I will always love you!
