From calmness and confidence, to the right dialogue, eye contact, and the perfect end to the meeting - tips that increase the chances of an unforgettable start
How to make the right impression and "force" him to fall in love with you? It sounds difficult, maybe even impossible, but here are some tips that can help you win him over.
Calm down, no rush.
You are probably excited before the first meeting. But don't let your emotions ruin everything: don't argue and don't rush things. You shouldn't seem like this is your last chance, this can scare the gentleman. After all, he is the one who is looking for your attention, not the other way around. Therefore, the safest tactics are cool charm, impeccable manners and a positive attitude.
Respect yourself and him/her.
Be punctual. Once upon a time, a girl's tardiness was considered part of the "ritual", but today time is very precious and there is no room for these mistakes. The British say: "A phone placed on the table is like spitting in the face of the interlocutor". Put your phone in your bag.
You need to know your value.
Didn't he open the restaurant door for you, didn't he help you with your coat, and didn't he shake your hand when you came down the stairs? It seems that this meeting is not only the first, but also the last! - reports the Telegraph.
Dress a little more elegantly than he expects.
It's not about cleavage or miniskirts. Imagine yourself moving effortlessly through a restaurant in an elegant dress while everyone in attendance stares at you. He will definitely be impressed by such an impressive look.
Build the dialogue properly
The meeting is for getting to know each other better and thinking about future plans, not for talking without listening. Therefore, do not burden your husband with your problems and sorrows (and especially do not devote the evening to describing how “bad” your ex was) this is not the time for such topics. Be attentive and a good conversationalist: do not interrupt, but do not hesitate to express your opinion. Jokes and humor are welcome, everyone likes positive people with a sense of humor.
Compliments
What can we say about men who like praise? They, in fact, want to be admired too. Don't hesitate to point out that he has a nice sweater.
Beware of awkward pauses
An awkward pause is a warning sign. Usually, when people like and are interested in each other, the conversation flows naturally and does not stop. But there is another possibility: the gentleman is very impressed by you, but at the same time anxious, shy and confused. In this case, you can help him by breaking the silence with a joke or a light story. He will be grateful to you.
Look him in the eye
On a first date, people are often shy and avoid eye contact, so don't judge them right away. However, psychologists insist: ten seconds of "eye to eye" is enough to fall in love.
End the meeting properly.
The way the date ends is very important: will he call you the next day and with what feeling you will wait for the next meeting. Therefore, be extremely polite and charming. Smile, thank him for the dinner and say that it was a pleasure, even if there were questionable moments.
Ending a date with anything more than a light hug and an innocent kiss on the cheek is not recommended even if you really want to give in. Otherwise, you risk ruining all the newly awakened interest. Moreover, the stronger sex is traditional, most believe that a girl who agrees to sex on the first date is necessarily considered “easy”. /Telegraph/
